In the house. In your house. Soap operas exist in reality. And that’s just because people are willing to play in them. The laundry will be washed in the family, but in which family? Either one. None.
We all have a history. It’s stupid to try to pretend he/she was a virgin. You wouldn’t even want to because he bangs you so well cause he trained. I know you wished he had trained by himself, but what do you think? Most likely, he practiced with someone else for a while. The important thing is not to practice now. Especially at the parallels.
The difference between memories and garbage is that the memories are worth keeping. They made you who you are. Today. However, you can only get rid of memories with amnesia. Which no one wants.
But the garbage must be thrown away by each one. Because everyone deserves a clean start. The problem is, it never goes alone. As long as you won’t clean your house, soul, and mind, it will start to stink sooner or later. And the smell might be so annoying that it would drive you both out of the house.