Women are among the most complex subjects in this world, and men complain everywhere that it is difficult to understand. That’s why I say it’s easier to let them cheat with the book on the desk. Natural selection will triumph and make your life easier, helping you to flunk those who simply browsed through the contents and had a keen eye to know from which page to cheat for a better grade or a number.
Throughout their lives, a few, although they know that they are allowed to cheat with the book wide open, will fall in love with the subject and will deepen it. They may not understand everything at first, but they will know that this is what they want to do for the rest of their lives: to discover, every day, page by page, what’s beyond the written letters. Especially since this book is interactive and has no end, so you can write it together.
But these days, women keep the ABC book for themselves (well, some men too, but those who are more pussies than men) and say it’s in Cyrillic when the book is written in the Latin alphabet as if the subject were not bushy enough. And here comes a whacko who starts learning the Cyrillic alphabet, but by the time he’s halfway through, he may realize it’s too complicated or that you got him to learn the wrong alphabet and will drop it exactly when he is about to discover the most interesting part.
Yes, I say put everything on the table first, say exactly how you are, what you want and throw yourself headlong and open-minded, cause if you know the subject well, you will know when the answer is copied or if that man is really passionate (hopefully and passionately) and wants to know everything. You certainly don’t know everything that will be written in the book, and there will be times when you will be surprised that he understands it better than you, but you should know perfectly at least what you have written so far.
For, if you too suck at your own subject, do not expect someone else to learn it better than you and make you happy.